Please just offer the person driving you there gas money. It's awkward if you don't. Even if they were going to spend money on gas to get there by themselves, you would have had to pay a lot more to get there without them. If you took a bus, taxi or flew there you have to pay for that transportation, don't be a jerk and try and get away without giving gas money. We are all in the same boat not getting paid a lot for gigs, that person has bills to pay just like you.
Sounds obvious, but nothing will make someone secretly hate you like finding some leftover food or wrappers in their car. Also, it's gross outside, don't put your feet on their stuff. Their weather mats are already going through a lot from all the salt and snow on your boots.
Be on time
I am always early for out of town gigs, and usually for local ones. A lot can go wrong, there are time differences, traffic and a bunch of other things that can happen. Don't add to it by being late and then making the other performer look bad because you were late and now made them late too. If you are going to need food going to the gig communicate with the person driving whether you will be stopping before or if they are eating before the trip starts that
Don't fall asleep
I drive a lot. If you are in my car, we're going to talk. I like to talk on a trip, either I want to get to know you or I want to catch up if we already know each other. Some comics I've driven before have learned this the hard way.
Also, going to and from gigs the driver might be tired too. Stay up and help keep them awake and make sure they don't miss something in their blind spot or the exit. Don't be a backseat driver but be a helpful passenger, if they miss a toll write down the exit for them. If you are texting the whole time and are treating them like a taxi driver, that's rude. Empathy ya'll.
Contributing Writer: Melissa Richelle
Melissa is a writer, stand-up comedian, actress, and producer and member of the online sketch group Foul But Funny. You can catch her performing all around the Chicago-land area.